When Rejection is Really Redirection – My Journey Through Pain to Purpose

Have you ever felt like you were constantly being pushed away—by people you loved, by opportunities you hoped for, and even by life itself? I know that feeling all too well.

For years, I believed I was unwanted. Rejected. Misunderstood. From losing my father at a young age to living with relatives who didn’t show me love, my story felt like a string of painful goodbyes and broken promises. I was made to feel like a burden, and left to carry the weight of abandonment, loneliness, and fear—alone.

But what I didn’t realize at the time was this: every rejection was really God’s redirection.

My book, "Reject Redirect," is a deeply personal story about how God took the broken pieces of my life and began to form something beautiful—something with purpose. It’s not a fairy-tale transformation, and it doesn’t ignore the dark places. I talk about depression, suicidal thoughts, therapy, and the struggle to find hope again. I share how I bounced from house to house, battled with self-worth, and tried to fill the void with relationships that left me emptier than before.

But in those dark places, I began to hear the gentle call of God—inviting me not just to survive, but to be healed.

"Reject Redirect" is not just my story—it’s a reminder for anyone who feels forgotten, overlooked, or unloved, that God is still writing your story. What feels like rejection may actually be His loving hand guiding you away from what would harm you and toward His best for you. Sometimes, the no is not punishment—it’s protection. Sometimes, the door that slammed shut is saving you from a fire you didn’t see.

In this book, you’ll walk with me through the moments I thought I wouldn’t survive, and you’ll see how God met me right there—with grace, healing, and redirection. You’ll also find reflections, scriptures, and encouragements that might just speak directly to your own heart.

If you've ever asked God, "Why me?" or "Why did they leave?" this book was written for you.

I invite you to read Reject Redirect, not just as a story, but as an encounter. Let it remind you that rejection is not your end. It may just be the beginning of your greatest transformation.

Are you ready to stop seeing rejection as failure—and start seeing it as divine redirection?

Grab your copy of Reject Redirect today and step into the healing you deserve.

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